I wonder the answer people expect when they ask "how is married life?"
Married life in me and KO's opinion (yes I am forcing my opinion on him) is pretty simple. It is sharing a bed with that one person who at one point is our worst enemy and at another is your personal person. It is sharing your life with that person who steps on all your toes with stilettos and at the same time knows how to make you smile.
It is getting upset, locking doors, fighting over money, sex, what to have for supper.. It is crying, praying to God and looking at your partner's face and seeing him look at you with concern in his eyes as though he isn't the one who annoyed you to begin with.
Marriage is sharing everyday who will move heaven and earth to make you happy and at the same time annoy you by spilling stew on your cooker and refusing to clean up.
It is making the best of every situation you find yourself in because you have each other
It is having a personal fan club
It is living with that voice in your head outside your head. (Dude, I don't need you to tell me what I am thinking out loud)
Seriously, when the honeymoon phase wore off, and as my hormones fluctuates monthly, there have been days where I have asked myself whether I made a mistake but each day, I run to God and I know there is no way, I could have... It's just that marriage by nature is a lot of work and I am glad to have this annoying, tall, handsome man to share the task with
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